How do you handle conflict? — a psychological test

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How do you handle conflict?

Open battle or guerrilla warfare?
See how honest and direct you are when a conflict is brewing.

1. How do you react when someone is clearly having a go at you?

I fade into the background and pretend I didn't notice I try to turn it all into a joke I say directly what doesn't work for me

2. If someone crosses your boundaries, how do you react?

I keep quiet, put up with it, then get angry with myself Sometimes I drop hints I openly set a boundary

3. What do you do after a conflict?

I dwell on it for ages, replaying “what I should have said” I talk it over with friends I turn the page quickly — done and forgotten

4. How often do you compromise to avoid an argument?

All the time, even when I don't want to Only if it doesn't matter Only if both sides win

5. In an argument you usually…

Give in so as not to make things worse Agree on the surface while seething inside Say what I think, even if it's “awkward”

6. What do you think about being direct?

Better to stay silent than to hurt someone It depends on the situation Honesty is always the best choice

7. How do you react to criticism?

I shut down and take it all personally I argue if I disagree I ask for details, keep what's constructive and bin the rest

8. Do you often avoid awkward conversations?

Yes, I put them off until the last minute Sometimes, if I'm not in the mood No, I deal with things as they come

9. After a conflict you most often…

Close up and go “underground” Wait for the other person to make the first move Reach out myself and close the topic

10. How do you feel in heated conversations?

I shrink and wish I could disappear Nervous, but bearable Adrenaline and a buzz — I love having it out!